Couples Counselling: Cheating – Why do Men and Women Cheat?
Guest Article
by
Richard Cole
The most basic answer to why do men cheat isn’t because they want sex. Men cheat because they miss the feeling of being admired and feeling a woman positively responding to them. Usually with their partner they feel criticised and undermined. Men need to feel they can make their partner happy and to feel...
When You Mess Up, Admitting It Is an Option
Guest article
by Richard Cole
When you have done something wrong and your partner is upset the first step is to forgive yourself. Avoid if you can, going into shame and self-hate. This is what lies beneath the surface for most men, who react with anger and defensiveness.
There’s a dignity to be found in accepting yourself regardless of what you have done...