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Why do Men and Women Cheat?

Couples Counselling: Cheating – Why do Men and Women Cheat? Guest Article by Richard Cole The most basic answer to why do men cheat isn’t because they want sex. Men cheat because they miss the feeling of being admired and feeling a woman positively responding to them. Usually with their partner they feel criticised and undermined. Men need to feel they can make their partner happy and to feel...

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Relationship Stages

Where Are You in Your Relationship? Guest article by Richard Cole Most couples feel relief when they come to relationship counselling when they realise that the arguments they are having, other couples have and that it’s normal to argue at particular stages in a relationship! It’s also a relief that most issues can be worked through. Let’s look at the 5 stages relationships go...

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Low Sex Drive

Lack of sex drive (or lack of libido) is much more common in women than men. There is some debate about exactly how many women suffer from this problem, but in the UK family planning clinics report that they see large numbers of women who complain of a lack of sex drive. Many of these women do not have a problem with having orgasms, but they say that they just have no real desire to have sex. In many...

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New Online Advice Service for Couples

A new service from Borders C & C offers online advice for couples in crisis. The service provides clients with a one-off consultation with an expert online therapist. Clients complete a questionnaire outlining their difficulties and receive an in-depth response from a Border’s therapist within 24 hours. The service is designed to be accessible and affordable. Clinical director Linda Pollitt...